“The thing about patriarchy is that individual men, gay and straight, are often really wonderful people who you love deeply, but they have internalized some really poisonous shit. So every once in a while they say or do something that really shakes you because you’re no longer totally certain they see you as a human being, and you feel totally disempowered to explain that to them.”
TRUEST STATEMENT OF THE YEAR. It makes me wtf so hard when my boyfriend says something dumb, but I think I’m starting to rub off on him because he can actually recognize sexist situations now, I have hope. ;-; (via vampishly)
(Source: lasluchasdelcorazon, via vampishly)




